Wednesday, November 7, 2007

a crush that isn't there yet

A friend was telling me about not having crush on a guy yet... but feeling like she could/would have a crush on him soon. She said it was like an invisible wire, this no-crush-crush. She said an actual genuine crush is a wire: it's there, it's obvious -- at least to one person -- and it makes things strung and awkward, interestingly tense. Much like a wire. A no-crush-crush is ridiculous. It may be there, neither party knows for sure... but there is something. A pre-tension, a vibration in the air.

1 comment:

Anonymous said...

...and all it takes is for one person to say, "hey, i don't care that you're asian and already married i want to have sex in the pooper with you."

and then, boom, its all out in the open. no harm, no foul.